Tuesday, October 21, 2008

lonely or solitude???

Why this sometimes happen that even though you have loads of friends out there but no one is free to meet you. I dont know what has happened to me these days why am i soo frustrated and angry over everyone. Is it because of this loneliness i am facing? I am happy now but i somewhat missing my old days as well my old friends. Life is good now as well or rather perfect but some insecurities some changes in life is that i am not able to take, its those simple things in life those simple changes but its bothering me something has got into me... and i seriously need helppp!!!
Why everyone has to be in contact with me but have no time for me? Why everyone has to get busy with their boyfriends and girlfriends soo much that they have no time for their friends? what has so drastically changed? or is it just me who has changed? is it really me whoz wrong? i tried figuring this out a loads of time but just can't now friends its your time to help me out plzz!.
what is the matter with me?

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

boyfriend or boy who is a friend?

"A gal and a boy can never be friends", Its one of the old and most Clichéd sentence ever.Is this really true? I mean can't any girl and a boy be just friends and no love involved in it?. Is it necessary that the love factor has to come in? Is it nessary for atleast one of them to have a crush on the other person? Well as everyone else even i have my personal views on it. I say, why can't two people of opposite sex's be just friends and nothing more than that? Why people have to talk about your friendship behind their backs? Its just a normal thing, I mean to say its just a normal friendship which a girl has with other girl and boy with other boys. If two people of opposite sex's are happy and comfortable in eachother's company then why people have a problem with that. Don't a girl have a healthy relation with her brother who obviously is a boy.
If a sister can be close to her brother than why can't a girl be close to other guy? What is the harm? The harm is always there in the mind of people thinking of something like this, they are creating a misconception in their mind and make the others suffer.
I just hope as our soceity has changed soo much over years, even this should be changed as soon as possible.
And once again the same Question of if " A girl and a boy can be friends or not" remains unanswered. Like many other Question's which are debatable and unanswered till date.

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Dear boy

Dear boy,
I do not know who you are, or where or when we will meet, but I do hope it is soon. I pray that when we meet and fall in love you will love me, for me and not hope for someone who is thinner or prettier. I hope you wont compare me to girls who have brighter smiles. I hope that you will make me laugh, take care of me if I get sick, and be trustworthy.
I hope you will remember that I prefer daises to rose. And that my favorite color is white and not pink.
Please know that I might be too shy to kiss first, but please don’t be afraid to kiss me. I wont slap you or push you awa. I’m sure your kisses will be perfect. When we go on a date, please don’t stress about where to take me, what’s important is that I’ll be with you.
If I cry, please know that it isn’t because of you, just hold me close and I will heal quickly. And if it is because of you, I’ll heal just the same. And if we decide to breakup please understand that I maybe a bit rude, but I’d like to be your friend if you’ll let me. Promise to remember that you have feelings too, ever though you’ll never admit it, and when you are ready we’ll have friendship.
I hope I m not askin too much out of you…..i hope you understand that I m a bit too much. And if you think if I am acting a bit too much please let me know…..what I want is you to tell me that ‘I don’t care what kind of character you are or what kind of fool or a nutcase you are I don’t care if you’re the stupidest person alive on this earth , I love you for what you are and that is what matters’.

Your someone,
Pooja.

Friday, December 14, 2007

mumbaiyya and mumbaikar

Mumbaiyya and Mumbaikar
Mumbaikar, The person who stays in Mumbai is called Mumbaikar. This name generated when Bombay was renamed Mumbai, the Bombayites became Mumbaikars instead of Mumbaites. It is a complete Swadeshi transformation of the name. Many of the Marathi surnames end in 'Kar' showing originating place of the person, the same theory was applied here.
Typical Mumbaikar is very easy going person who mixes up with crowd and interacts with others in local slang of Hindi (Mumbaiyya), This interaction is normally seen in public transport and street.
The personality of Mumbaikar is mistaken with rudeness (Reader's Digest Survey) due to the language used in common i.e. Mumbaiyya. Commonly strangers are called 'Boss' or with a noise made with lips called 'Mucchh'. Although ladies are always respected and called Madam or Bhen-ji. The life of Mumbaikar is very tightly scheduled according to Railway Time-table. Any effect on world or surroundings never matter for Mumbaikar. The day always begins with the first Local and ends with a last local (train).
Contradicting to the Reader's Digest Survey, Mumbaikar will always help in calamities, Man-made or natural, he will always tip you about stock market, He'll always guide Tourists to Crawford Market, down town, and best food Joints. He will offer the staple food ofvada pav and pav bhaji.
Mumbaiyya, the commonly used slang of Hindi. It developed with words from many languages used by people from different Indian cultures.
It has words from, Hindi, Marathi, English, Konkani, Gujarati, Tamil, Urdu and more.
English :
Full to : Totally
Cut-to-cut : to the Point
Load, Tension : Mental Stress
Time ki Khoti : Wasting time in vain
Style Marna :being Fashionable
the sufix 'ing' (nad-ing, Chad-ing) : Nading : Taunting, Chading : Boasting
Marathi :
Ajun, Akkha, Dhapan, Bindast (Bindaas), Aaila, etc.
Few common words and phrases : (from wiki)
Ajun tak - As yet (The proper Hindi phrase for this is abhi tak. In Bambaiyya, the Marathi word ajun replaces the Hindi word abhi).
Apun - Me, we, us, myself, oneself (A variant of the Marathi word aapaN which means "us" or "we").
Atrangi - Something strange or extraordinary.
Akkha - (Translates to "whole" or "complete" or "full").
Battery/Double battery/ḍhāpnyā - A person wearing prescription glasses. Dhapan is slang for glasses.
Bin Pagaar Full Haazri (lit. No pay, full attendance) - A guy who has has lot of free time on his hands.
Bindaas - Someone who's cool, without worries.
Bhankas - Something of little or no value. Usually used for wasting somebody's time with gibberish. e.g: "Stop your bhankas- I've got work to do."
Chappan tikli (lit. Fifty-six dots) - Actually used for ones who have small pox/chicken pox scars but also for ones having pimple scars.
Chhaava or Chhaavi (from the Marathi word for a lion's cub) - Boyfriend/girlfriend
Chaila or Chamaila - An interjection, equivalent to 'Oh shit!'
Chikni or Barfi or Maal or Item - A good looking girl.
Chote, Tambi or Ramu - Any kid working in a tapri (small tea shop or eatery).
Cutting - Though an English word, it is used to refer to half a glass of tea.
Dhaasu - Awesome.
FC - Fokat Chand or Fakir Chand - someone always trying to get stuff done for free, a freeloader.
Full to - to be complete or full of something, e.g: "The film was full to action", which means that the film was full of action.
Gheun taak - A Marathi phrase literally meaning "take it". Used to encourage someone to do something that seems really easy.
Ghochu - Fool
Haila or Aaila or Tujya Maila - literally means to your mother in Marathi. ('Haila!' is believed to be derived from the word 'Hai- Allah!'). Aaila is a Marathi word meaning "(to) your mother". It is an offensive word, but is not taken with the literal meaning. Mostly used as an exclamation rather than as an abuse.
Jhakaas - Awesome, superb or wonderful.
Khamba - Literally a pillar but means a full bottle of liquor (750 ml - contains 12 and a half large pegs at 60 ml each).
Quarter - A 180 ml bottle of liquor (a nip) which is equal to 3 large pegs (at 60 ml each)
BPT - bevda peeke tight - An extremely inebriated person.
Kharcha paani - (lit. (Money for) expenses and water. The word "water" is used a substitute for "miscellaneous things") - Usually denotes a bribe. Also denotes beating someone up.
Pandu - Cop. Equivalent to the English fuzz.
Town - Southern Part of Bombay.
Setting - Try to arrange for something to happen e.g. "Ladki se setting kar rahela hai" (lit. He's trying to woo the girl).
Dhinchak - Loud, flashy

LA PAUVERT EN INDE

La pauvreté c’est une situation quand le monde n’avait pas de chose nécessaires comme nourriture, vêtements, maison etc. cette situation était en augment maintenant en inde. Pauvreté est un grand problème. Les riches deviennent encore plus riches et les pauvres deviennent encore plus pauvres. Inde c’est un pays très riche du monde pauvre. Pauvreté est la racine des autres problèmes sociales.

Il y avait deux types de pauvreté : pauvreté absolue et pauvreté relative. Dans pauvreté absolue une personne n’avait pas d’argent pour acheter les nécessites dans sa vie. Pauvreté absolue est en hausse dans les villages et dans les quartiers en ville. Pauvreté relative c’était la comparaison de différents niveaux du monde qui gagnait revenues différents pauvreté relative existe partout.

Les causes de pauvreté sont : les pays étaient sous developes, inégalité de revenues, aussi une cause : la population et chômage sont les autres problèmes.

Dans la pauvreté une personne n’avait pas d’argent. Les personnes qui n’avaient pas de bons niveaux de vie comme ça deviennent criminels. Ces personnes sont prêts a faire les choses mauvaises pour gagner de l’argent.

C’est nécessaire que le gouvernement prenne des mesures corrects pour améliorer le niveau de vie. Les mesures correctifs doivent être adoptes par le gouvernement comme redistribuer la revenue, contrôler la population, donner des opportunités pour le travail. Pauvreté est une problème qui arrête du progrès de l’inde. Eradication de pauvreté est nécessaire pour le progrès.

Its Time Now....

Its time now to awaken...
We will either find a way or make one.
Nothing is impossible if we try,
We will neithrlose heart, nor will we cry.

Crush all your doubts and make them even,
don't just stand there, make it happen!
The future is in our hands, lets make it happen,
the 'present' is a gift, lets take it.

life is nothing without a struggle,
just be honest and fight all your trouble.
clear your thoughts,have presence of mind,
keep all your tears and worries behind.

how long can we bear this grief and pain?
we can loose nothing, but we can surely gain.
lets have courage, lets make ourselves strong,
we hav to save the land to which we belong.

lets enlighten our soul, our body, our mind,
lets spread love, and peace we shall find.
we shall do only that what is right,
lets burn all evil inside, let there be light.

the strom will pass, the sun will peep,
we wont allow the darkness to creep.
its time now to awaken...
we will either find a way or make one.